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| Jeffrey "JT" Tyler 29 Year Old Male Virgin Abstinence Advocate |
Anytime I hear the statement there are no
virgin men out there or it is not expected that men are virgins or that male virgins are lame, it makes me
wonder so who are the heterosexual men sleeping with? Themselves??
So logic tells me if heterosexual men are sleeping with heterosexual girls then
there shouldn’t be an expectation that girls should be virgins while men
shouldn’t be. Do you catch my drift?
Logic aside, I have some good news for V
girls looking for V men- they do exist!!! They may not carry a placard around
announcing their purity status but they are out there.
Researchers of the Centre of Disease
control found that between 2006 and 2008, the percentage of 15- to 24-year-old
men who had never had any form of sexual contact* with another person was 27
percent (up from 22 percent in 2002) while the percentage of 15- to 24-year-old
females who had never had any sex
whatsoever* was 29 percent (up 7 percent points from 22 percent in 2002).
*These includes oral and anal sex.
Interesting stats don't you think?
There are advantages to marrying a virgin
just like yourself.
When it comes to love making, you may fail
at it together, laugh over it together and learn together.
The fact that you have
kept yourself for each other helps instill trust in yourselves.
You both probably have a sense of sexual responsibility, and a high level of
self-discipline. If you didn’t sleep around before
marriage that would probably be the case after marriage.
You don’t have to worry about where your
partner learnt one “hot” skill during love making.
Now please note that I am not saying being
a virgin or marrying a virgin is a SURE guarantee that your marriage will be
successful. There are certainly other factors involved in the success of
a marriage.
//Side note//
I know some people don’t care much about
marrying virgins. They want someone with awesome breathtaking bedroom experience! Lol. That’s
fine and your choice. In fact this post isn’t directed at you at all but we
don’t mind you reading :)
//End side note//
What I am trying to pass across in this
post is that if your heart desire is to marry a virgin just like you- there is
hope! You are not the only one out
there.
More and more people (both male and female)
are keeping their V statuses and more people are abstaining from premarital
sex.
Also it’s possible that you are no longer a
virgin but now abstaining from sex till marriage. There are also other people
out there like you.
Even though it appears more people are making the decision to remain virgins or abstain from premarital sex, that choice still isn’t so popular. Some people don’t get what the hype is
all about but I will encourage you to stick to your conviction.
God who is faithful sees your commitment to
sexual purity and keeping yourself for your future spouse. I believe he will
honour your desire by giving you someone to marry who is committed to doing the
same thing.
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