|Jeffrey "JT" Tyler 29 Year Old Male Virgin Abstinence Advocate|
Anytime I hear the statement there are no virgin men out there or it is not expected that men are virgins or that male virgins are lame, it makes me wonder so who are the heterosexual men sleeping with? Themselves??
So logic tells me if heterosexual men are sleeping with heterosexual girls then there shouldn’t be an expectation that girls should be virgins while men shouldn’t be. Do you catch my drift?
Logic aside, I have some good news for V girls looking for V men- they do exist!!! They may not carry a placard around announcing their purity status but they are out there.
Researchers of the Centre of Disease control found that between 2006 and 2008, the percentage of 15- to 24-year-old men who had never had any form of sexual contact* with another person was 27 percent (up from 22 percent in 2002) while the percentage of 15- to 24-year-old females who had never had any sex whatsoever* was 29 percent (up 7 percent points from 22 percent in 2002).
*These includes oral and anal sex.
Interesting stats don't you think?
There are advantages to marrying a virgin just like yourself.
When it comes to love making, you may fail at it together, laugh over it together and learn together.
The fact that you have kept yourself for each other helps instill trust in yourselves.
You both probably have a sense of sexual responsibility, and a high level of self-discipline. If you didn’t sleep around before marriage that would probably be the case after marriage.
You don’t have to worry about where your partner learnt one “hot” skill during love making.
Now please note that I am not saying being a virgin or marrying a virgin is a SURE guarantee that your marriage will be successful. There are certainly other factors involved in the success of a marriage.
I know some people don’t care much about marrying virgins. They want someone with awesome breathtaking bedroom experience! Lol. That’s fine and your choice. In fact this post isn’t directed at you at all but we don’t mind you reading :)
//End side note//
What I am trying to pass across in this post is that if your heart desire is to marry a virgin just like you- there is hope! You are not the only one out there.
More and more people (both male and female) are keeping their V statuses and more people are abstaining from premarital sex.
Also it’s possible that you are no longer a virgin but now abstaining from sex till marriage. There are also other people out there like you.
Even though it appears more people are making the decision to remain virgins or abstain from premarital sex, that choice still isn’t so popular. Some people don’t get what the hype is all about but I will encourage you to stick to your conviction.
God who is faithful sees your commitment to sexual purity and keeping yourself for your future spouse. I believe he will honour your desire by giving you someone to marry who is committed to doing the same thing.